Lockdown Diary - Saturday 22nd May 2021

A slightly different Saturday: sons 1 and 2 are off to Birmingham University for an open day, ahead of son #1 most likely going there in September.

Son #3 and I did the shopping fairly quickly as I am due to join a three hour Talking Therapies guided meditation session that begins at 10:00, though we're advised to join at around twenty to, in order to make sure the technology works.

Overall, three hours well-spent and it was a good refresh as there hasn't been a half-day session since February. Next one is in July.  I feel better for it though it does remind me how much needs to change and how far away from getting there I am.

After that I did all the usual rubbish that needs doing then later went for a walk with son #3, which made a change. It was a good chance to get to talk to him one-to-one which I haven't done much of lately.  There's more we need to talk about, so we should do it again sometime soon.

Around 7:15 p.m. sons 1 and 2 returned after a challenging day of train travel, with overcrowded trains and people not wearing masks, despite being asked to.  As far as I can tell Birmingham University was good and the visit was worth the effort (and the cost! Ouch!), we'll probably have a proper update tomorrow.

Dinner is on and it's my choice of film.  Loads of films on my mind to choose between, but in the end I went for 'Three Billboards Outside Ebbing, Missouri'.

Excellent film, well worth watching if you've not seen it.  It has great performances especially from Frances McDormand, Sam Rockwell and Woody Harrelson in particular. It's an unflinching view of the aftermath of a tragic event, with all the characters believably flawed and an ending that feels more real than most. It is also laugh-out loud (sorry boys!) funny in a darkly humorous sense.

After that bed as usual.

The Internet / 'It Gets Better (With Time)' / 'Hive Mind'

[Still need some convincing]



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